not only was she deceiving you for the better part of a year, but this wasn't a strictly sexual thing. This involved feelings and affection and actual admissions of. Regardless of what she claims, I'd have a Blondes swingers seeking fucking dating divorced women difficult time trusting her word now that you've discovered the affair. I've always had a bias towards cheating, but I'm going to put it to you like I've put it to other posters who come here with the same dilemma. Had she really felt guilty she would have been the one to end it. If this wasn't a fundamental dealbreaker on an irrevocable level I'd say go to counseling and fix it. But since she perpetuated the affair until HE ended it I'm going to say that divorce is probably your best option. At no point in time did she feel guilty for what she did and decide "I can't do this to my family any longer, this is over." It took him ing it off. I'd be more willing to say you could recover from this if it didn't hit emotional and physical levels. That you might have been able to move on from this if it was something purely physical that lasted the span of a couple encounters over a couple of months. But it wasn't. She made an emotional connection with someone. And here's the ugly side of cheating you're going to encounter. You're never going to fully trust her again. And deep down in her mind, because you decide to stay with her and "work through it" she's going to think that she can get away with it again. I really wish you luck in this realm and that in the end I'm wrong. I just wanted to give you the opposite side of the story here from someone who has been cheated on previously, had a terrible experience trying to work it out, and has seen cheating as a "one and done" deal now. Single Marry, 28

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